Is giving my girlfriend a diamond necklace an appropriate gift for a month anniversary?
drod13579 asked:
i wish to give her this gift for our 1 month anniversary. i have never felt this way about any girl in my life before. i love her and i really believe she is the one for me. but is it toon soon for a diamond necklace?
i wish to give her this gift for our 1 month anniversary. i have never felt this way about any girl in my life before. i love her and i really believe she is the one for me. but is it toon soon for a diamond necklace?
22 Responses to “Is giving my girlfriend a diamond necklace an appropriate gift for a month anniversary?”
No - diamonds are very significant. Find out her birth-stone and give her one of those. Save the diamond for the third finger, left hand.
Depends on your net worth,job, etc. But if you really love her, then its ok, but you are pushing the limit here.
1 month is not were you give her anything but alittle gift diamonds are for a year or more 1 month you must be a kid to be counting like that or you don’t think it will last
of course not.. a diamond necklace would really make her feel special… but most of all, to make her feel realy really special and loved, you should be there for her at all times, talk to her about her problems, support her in her choices and never ever leave her side! =)
no you should wait at least 2 to 4 years.try special roses with lovely dinner in a class restaurant.
Too soon. You’ll scare her. Get her a silver chain with a charm on it.
making yourself a second Tom Cruise? I’m sorry just kidding.
If you plan to give her a necklace, what makes you hesitate and have to go here to ask us. Every gift imply its meaning. And you already have a reason, a meaning to give it to her.
Lucky girl! I can’t wait to see what you give for the anniversary year!
dont be giving her a diamond necklace after 1 month cos she will just use you after - give her a pebble and is she turns her nose up at that then dump her
It is too soon. Why? b/c after you give her something that expensive what are you gonna do to live up to it next? Before you know it you’ll run out of ideas and maybe cash.
Start small and meaningful then work up to Diamonds.
Besides, what if you give it to her and although she may feel the same way a/b you, she thinks your moving too fast b/c of the extravagent gift. Unless your both really rich, in which case its okay to give diamonds.
WOW it’s a bit much after only a month, in my opinion (ONLY IF YOU’VE KNOWN HER YEARS BEFORE), but it’s not my mula, lol go for it!
I’ve said it before, and I’ll say it again:
DON’T TOSS $$$ AT CHICKS.
Chicks which are attracted to you DO NOT CARE HOW MUCH $$$ YOU MAKE. It’s how you make them feel inside that matters. Do they feel protected and happy being around you? Do you allow them to be the cute, fun girl they want to be?
If you buy this chick really expensive sh*t, you’re setting a baaaaaaad precedent for this relationship. It’s subcommunicating, “I don’t think you’ll like me just for me, so I’ll toss all this $$$ at you in hopes that you’ll spend more time with me, please oh please.”
If you think I’m full of sh*t, then go ahead and buy that diamond necklace for her. Next thing you know, she’s going to ask you buy her a diamond tennis bracelet. Then help pay for her student loans. Then buy her a car. Then a house. Then your balls on a silver fvckin’ platter.
Then she’s going to leave you for a Man that knows how to treat her.
Want a better gift idea? How about this: Think about all the conversations you’ve had with her in the past month. Are there themes which have shown up again and again in terms of where her passions lie? For example, does she talk about how much she loves the outdoors? If so, tailor a gift for that, from the heart. If she loves the outdoors, plan an outdoor picnic for her birthday. Simple, sweet, and just you and her.
I so agree,diamonds are the hardest minerals.A diamond signifies a strong bond.But make sure she doesn’t wear it late at night.Someone might steal it.
That’s a lot for a one month anniversary gift. She would expect more for the next anniversaries.Try something like taking her for a nice weekend in a romantic place.
Thats like giving Dracula a bloody Mary ! r u nuts ????
Yep way too soon, if a guy that to me on a month anniversary (don’t know why you’re having one of those either) I’d freak a little bit and think that i could probably just use and abuse you, in getting me anything.
If I were the one who received your diamond necklace at a month anniversary, I would expect a pair of diamond hairpins at two months anniversary… and keep going. You should know what I am trying to say, right?
Every woman likes diamonds, but it is kind of early to give her one of those. What if you break up? Get her something small like earrings or a tennis braclet. But diamonds are too much at this point! It might make you seem desperate to keep her.
nope to much
No, give her some roses and a card, and i mean really read the card. I love the between you and me cards, they say a lot. Get her one every time she puts you on that high. If you want to get her something learn her style, get her hair done, then after maybe 6 months a promise ring not to expensive, but letting her know you care. Most importantly make sure shes appreciative and not ungrateful. Who knows she may be your wife soon, then you will be able to wine and dine her.
It’s too soon..yeah, you love her..you are sure of that…but are you sure about her feelings for you? There are a lot of gifts to make her special and maybe give you more reason to be with her…and know her better…what about a nice trip?..i’m sure there’s a lot of place to go to..it’s much fun and will do good for your relationship.
its always appropriate
(’diamonds are a girl’s best friend’)
but honestly, if i were you i would consider it cauz (if she’s a bit***) you may cause her to want more and more stuff from you (you know her 1 month and are giving her a diamond necklace?!); you may then not know whether she loves you for the stuff or yourself