This guy gave me a diamond necklace for my birthday and now he won’t talk to me?
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Well, this guy gave me a diamond necklace for my birthday (not real diamonds, goodness), and another present that he got all on his own (a how-to-draw anime book, incase you wanted to know). The necklace he took from his sister’s room (lol). He and I get along very well, but he hasn’t talked to me all summer. He doesn’t come on messenger, and I sent him an email last monday and he STILL hasn’t responded. He didn’t come forward and give the necklace to me, he made a friend give it to me for him and since it was during drama class i couldn’t freak out and thank him. I managed to thank him later though.
A while later, i brought this guy FRIEND to an event that he was at and he wouldn’t talk to me. I’m too scared to call him, but I want to talk to him because i like him! If he doesn’t respond to my email.. then what? I’m confused! >.< Why would he give me such a nice gift and then ignore me? What's this guy's problem?! *bangs head on desk*.
But the gifts were for my BIRTHDAY... did I forget to mention that?? sorry =(
Should i still return the gifts if there wre for my birthday? Also, i told his sister about the necklace (that's how i found out it was hers) and she said it was ok for me to have it, i offered to give it back.
Well, this guy gave me a diamond necklace for my birthday (not real diamonds, goodness), and another present that he got all on his own (a how-to-draw anime book, incase you wanted to know). The necklace he took from his sister’s room (lol). He and I get along very well, but he hasn’t talked to me all summer. He doesn’t come on messenger, and I sent him an email last monday and he STILL hasn’t responded. He didn’t come forward and give the necklace to me, he made a friend give it to me for him and since it was during drama class i couldn’t freak out and thank him. I managed to thank him later though.
A while later, i brought this guy FRIEND to an event that he was at and he wouldn’t talk to me. I’m too scared to call him, but I want to talk to him because i like him! If he doesn’t respond to my email.. then what? I’m confused! >.< Why would he give me such a nice gift and then ignore me? What's this guy's problem?! *bangs head on desk*.
But the gifts were for my BIRTHDAY... did I forget to mention that?? sorry =(
Should i still return the gifts if there wre for my birthday? Also, i told his sister about the necklace (that's how i found out it was hers) and she said it was ok for me to have it, i offered to give it back.
19 Responses to “This guy gave me a diamond necklace for my birthday and now he won’t talk to me?”
some guys are weird..lol..does he think you are interested in this other guy?
Most likely he’s really scared that you don’t like him back or else he thinks you like your other guy friend. Try talking to him in person about it. He’s probably too shy to respond; don’t worry, I think he really likes you!
Call him. When he say you with that guy friend he may have though you were taken or not interested. Even though you sent him emails, something may be wrong with this internet or he has not interest in getting online. You need to call him if you want to get anything going.
yeah that is kind of weird..id say let it go and then hope for him to talk again lol thats a really hard question…i say continue bangging your head on desk..j/k
THE problem here is he saw you with some one else. YOU need to clear that up asap/(AS soon as POSSIBLE)
leave it alone! your to pretty to let him not say anything, if he doesn’t want to talk, then his loss!
Maybe he was disappointed about your reaction or disappointed that you brought that “friend” to the event you went to.
Either way, there’s only one way to find out, and that’s to manage to get to talk to him.
It doesn’t matter if you e-mail him or call him or show up at his door. Don’t scare him away, but find some way to track him down and explain to him what you explained to us.
That you really like him, and you’re confused about why you don’t feel like those feelings are mutual.
He sounds like a shy guy who just needs to know you really care.
But if you have to remember: communication is the key.
Whether you’re 9, 11, 23, or 45.
You have to talk to the guy you like and get a sense of how he’s feeling.
And trust me, that’ll feel muchh better than the guessing game you’re playing now.
Maybe the guy likes another girl. :O
Maybe the guy cares more about populairity so he’s hanging
out with other cool guys.
Maybe he thinks you’re uncool so he decided to not talk to you.
Okay…first of all…this guy likes you. He stole his sisters necklace and gave it to you..and other stuff to give you. Then he sees you out with another guy. It crushed his world. That’s why he’s not talking to you. He’s pissed off. Honestly. Myself… If he won’t give you a chance to explain. Then he’s gonna be trouble if you do stay with him. It’s probably better that he doesn’t talk to you. But I know he will within time. A few weeks maybe or more.
Ok first of all you need to give him back the necklace and tell him to return it to his sister. Its the right thing to do- think how you would feel if you were her. My older brother used to steal things from me to give to girls, granted my brother is mentally retarded so he doesn’t know any better, but still you know what I’m saying, its not fun to have things stolen from you. Also this guys sounds incredibly immature. He didn’t talk to you all summer and now he’s still not talking to you…well maybe he doesn’t like you as much as you think he does, or maybe he’s waiting for you to put a little effort into the “relationship”-if you can even call it that, too. You really just need to call him and try to clear this up, just be direct and ask him why he’s ignoring you and if there’s anything you can do about it. If you don’t get any straight answers it means he’s just playing games with you or he doesn’t know what the hell he wants, in which case you should probably give up on him. You can’t wait around for him forever
>What’s this guy’s problem?!< He’s OBVIOUSLY very shy. He saw you with another guy! He may think you don’t like him (cuz of the other guy he saw you with) and that you used him by accepting the gifts (and then he saw you with that other guy!)
Go up to him and talk to him. Be sure to LISTEN to him, too. If he gets mad, then offer to return the gifts. Try to keep the lines of communication open with him if you can.
If you can’t then he may NOT be the “one” for you. Give him back the gifts even if he says not at first and then ignore him.
EDIT: I agree with the gal who told you that communication is key at _ANY_ age!!! Without that, you have NO relationship at all. Been there, done that.
In addition, I’m last (at present, anyway) because I’m a slooooow typist. Everyone ahead of me beat me to the Submit Button while I was typing.
Hi there,
I think he’s just trying to create a suspense scenario whereby he may be aware that u like him and hes playing hard to get to get u running for him without he trying to woo u. That way he has played smart, knowing u will fall in love with him the more he ignores u the more u miss him and the more u fall in love with him and the more u run after him.
I cud be wrong but if im correct then try playing hard to get too, maybe he will start missing u and falling in love with u and finally running after u..
All the best
So basically what you are saying is, he stole his sisters necklace and gave it to you, by having his friend hand it to you.
That sounds like maybe he has been caught and is afraid that if he stays in contact with you, and you go over to visit him he will get found out when his sister sees that your wearing her necklace.
Your in possession of stolen property, I think you have a bigger issue you need to address, rather then him not talking to you. If you keep the necklace your breaking the law.
He broke the law stealing it, his friend became an accomplice to the crime when he took it from him to give to you, and your in possession of stolen property.
If I were you I would thank him for the thought but return it so he can give it back to the rightful owner.
If he can be adult enough to own up to his mistake in judgment and return it to the right full owner then he will be able to feel comfortable having contact with you.
If not, then your better off not being with a thief.
Sorry, I know this is not what you wanted to hear, but from what you have said that’s how I see it!
lol maybee he is just a kind boy who gave you something cute for your birthday just like any other friend would…
best of luck.my wishes to ya!!
A fake diamond necklace some guy stole from his sister to give to you Does NOT qualify as a nice gift. I’d be glad he wasn’t talking to me.
you were right to offer the necklace back.
but the book, well, its probably easier for both of you if you just keep it. It would be endlessly awkward to go up to him and be like “heres your book back”. Especially seeingas you are not really clear on the relationship’s status.
Good luck!
He likes you
He is just nervous thats all. Guys are hard to understand sometimes 
They r kinda wacky, lol
He probably thinks you llike the other guy. Maybe you should just call him but if your scared take a deep breath and do it anyways! Tell him if he has any plans on a certain day and then suggest that you do something together oh and if you make plans, make sure to do a bit of flirting. If he doesnt get the hint then just flat out tell him that the other guy is just a friend and you have no intentions of going out with him. If he still is acting weird then just ask him “is there anything wrong?” However he responds, just find a way to tell him that you like spending time with him and that you two should hang out again. If he STILL doesnt get the hint then just be like “I REALLY like you and i want to know if you like me?” If he yet again doesnt understand find yourself another guy……….. Hope this helps. Oh and let us know how it all turned out!!!
Probaly because he did not no that they guy was just a friend and wanted to get together with you, hey didnt he give you a diamond necklace, AND stole it from his sister!