is a diamond necklace too much for a gift on a first date?
uh oh asked:
i dont care about the money, i just wanna know what you would think if a guy gave you a diamond necklace on the first date. if thats too much how bout a red, a pink, and yellow rose together
if it helps at all she is 17 and im 18
i dont have much money and she already knows that, money just doesnt matter to me
i dont care about the money, i just wanna know what you would think if a guy gave you a diamond necklace on the first date. if thats too much how bout a red, a pink, and yellow rose together
if it helps at all she is 17 and im 18
i dont have much money and she already knows that, money just doesnt matter to me
23 Responses to “is a diamond necklace too much for a gift on a first date?”
no can i date you?
Roses would be fine. I would be afraid if a guy gave me a diamond necklace on a first date.
I would be a little scared.. if i didnt know him as i friend, i would think he was really serious about it even on the first date.. watch out..
Nah…Diamonds are never too much!
All of the above would creep me out.
yah, thats a little over the top.
the roses would be nice tho
Studies show women loves electronic devices over expensive appealing jewelries. You may want to get her a Zune or iPod instead if she doesn’t already have one, I think it’s more special and she’ll definitely love it.
I find jewelries too mundane.
Of course, that’s only if she loves you a LOT. If you guys hasn’t gone far yet and only dates not for long, then maybe something unique and less expensive or something funny such as a pair of unique mirrored sunglasses or such. Roses are fine too though.
its kinda too much, but it would be so sweet. so if ur planning on doing that, do it. but later on when u give her another gift and u give her something cheaper, she might think u dont like her as much as u used to
YES, IT IS WAY TOO MUCH!! The roses would be very nice to give to a woman on a first date. Maybe go as far as a dozen roses, but no diamond necklace. Save the diamonds for maybe your 6month or 1yr anniversary.
I think a single rose would be better if she doesn’t seem happy you no she’s only out for your wallet
Most normal women would be abit freaked out if a guy offered some major jewelry on a first date. I know I would be at least. Would make for an uncomfortable situation. I would opt for the roses.
no diamond necklace…it might scare her off
flowers are always good
Yes! A Pink rose!
You give a yellow rose if you are sorry and and red one if in love!
Definitely. It is WAY too much for a first date. That’s something you give to someone when you’ve been dating for much longer, like a few months at least. Roses are nice, they can be all one color or you can mix it up. Stuffed animals, such as teddy bears, aren’t a bad idea either. They’re sweet, and you might try adding a single long-stemmed red rose.
yes it is unless you are richard gere dating julia roberts. I wouldnt do it because seriously what are u going to follow up with on 2nd, 3rd, 4th dates. And I soo feel sorry for you and holidays and bdays if u start out with diamonds. Good Luck
yes it is a bad idea for a first date one you might scare her off cause she might think you are a creep for giving her something like that so soon and two she might keep dating you but for the wrong reasons.
i would think, “wow, that’s over-the-top.”
if money means nothing to you, than the gift would not mean much to her either given that it wan’t much of a sacrifice on your part. i’ve just noted that ppl who are really well off financially-speaking make more of a gesture doing something that takes time and effort, something original, rather than just shelling out a lot of money (which is meaningless since money is no object). something as simple as getting photos from a first date and giving them to her in a mini album a couple of dates down the road-that’s special.
although diamond necklaces are nice, i think i’d be very cautious, wondering what the guy’s intentions are, especially since it’s a first date and (presumably) i didn’t know him well. knowing that some guys are jerks out there and they equate a fancy restaurant or gift with gettting sex in return (i.e. the modern form of common prostitution), i would be VERY skeptical.
plus, assuming you two end up together for a long time, how are you going to follow up for anniversaries if you start off with diamonds?!
lastly, she might just *really* pretend to like you b/c she’s a gold-digger. you don’t want that.
i would just go with a romantic single red rose and a nice night under the stars.
good luck!!! =)
The way you start something is the way you have to keep it going. Start out with something simple then work your way up
Depends on the girl. If the girl is really flirtatious then go for it. If they are more conservative they’d feel guilty about the gift and wouldn’t know what to get you. So just think it over. Other good gifts that have personally worked for my girlfriend is a stuffed bear.
n0. that is an ideal gift for the first date
Wow!! r you for real?! Lucky girl whoever she is, but you know diamond necklace on a first date would be a tad too much, actually you might scare her off (i know i would), but the idea of a red, pink, and yellow roses together is really sweet go with that. Of course until and unless the girl goes for rich guys only then i think she would love the rose idea.
Just a suggestion, if you really want this girl to like you for who you are and not for your money until and unless you are thinking of proposing to her I would suggest no extraordinary gifts, but also not lame ones either like you are on your 10th date or it is her birthday don’t give her only roses then but a thoughtful gift would do. Good luck
OMG dude like u need 2 come down dude seriously u must really like her man calm down dude okay here what u she do u better give her a damn rose or somthing small like flower dont give her no diamond neck cuz if i was here i would accepte it cuz it’s just toooooo much and i wouldnt know u like that potna!
a diamond necklace would blow her heart away. i like ur style. it would be a perfect gift.